Are You Blaming Others For The State Of Your Life?
When you were younger and helpless, blaming others was acceptable. Now you are an adult, you have to take a hundred percent responsibility for your decisions and choices.
IT IS IMPORTANT TO TAKE FULL RESPONSIBILITY
If you do not take full responsibility for your life choices, you will never be empowered to successfully achieve sustainable positive change, because you cannot change what you do not fully own. It is like Adam blaming Eve for his decision and choice to eat the apple. Unless you are under extreme duress, no one forces you to make unhealthy decisions or choices. Rather, it is our inability to deal effectively with our feelings that drive us to our default habitual negative actions or behaviors. Take it a step further, it is our unhealthy thinking patterns that get us in trouble. What is your life PHILOSOPHY?
BLAMING OTHERS GIVES YOU AN EXCUSE NOT TO TRY
Perhaps deep inside you are afraid that you are not good enough. Then again, there is also the possibility of a limiting belief that you do not deserve better. My belief is that the fear of failure keeps many people paralyzed in mediocrity. If you are feeling like you have not lived up to your potential, isn’t it time to take a leap of faith? Therefore, ask yourself this question: “How would you feel if you continue to live like this and never give yourself the chance to discover your full potential?”
WE HAVE ONE LIFE TO LIVE, MAKE IT THE BEST LIFE
I know we were created to live abundantly. In 2018, I examined my story and realized I was not living abundantly. For decades I was blaming the world, my parents, my circumstances, etc. I realized in 2018 that I was the reason I was not living abundantly. Thus, I decided to change that. I cleaned up my thinking and I got clarity about my purpose, my identity, and my calling. I know my “WHY.” I also had an attitude adjustment. The world does not owe me anything! I have everything I NEED to be successful.
Answer these 4 questions as they relate to your TOTAL HEALTH:
- How do you think?
- What do you think about constantly?
- What is your attitude?
- What are your daily practices?
If your thoughts are based on errors and untruths, you will make decisions and take actions that compromise your total health. What you think about constantly will manifest in your life. If your attitude is rotten and your daily practices are unhealthy, your life will be totally unhealthy.
YOU CAN ONLY CHANGE YOURSELF
Decide what you really want or desire? Discover what makes life worthwhile and valuable to you? Really get crystal clear about these things. Then start living your life with the feeling that these things exist now in the present. Lose the fear of failure and remember the ability you had when you were younger to tap into your creative mind and imagination. You have been given everything you need to succeed. You simply have to remember how to access them. Get in complete spiritual alignment and live from and in a state of love.
EVERYTHING WE HAVE IS A GIFT FROM GOD
My wise mother, she always told me to share what I have and what I know. I used to whine and complain about how hard I worked to accomplish what I had. She would just look at me and say, “What you have is a gift from God, stop being greedy and selfish and share it.” I realize decades later that my mother was my greatest teacher. Everything I do good in my life is because of my Heavenly Father and my loving mother.
